Riding Solo For The Summer Challenge ?

I have read on the message board and in some of the posts that some of the ladies would like to meet up in groups to go out during the summer challenge. I have created a network that will hopefully help facilitate this need. The network is very simple; I created a forum for each state and it's up to any interested LADIES to join and find others to network with. This is NOT a dating site.


If you are interested in signing up, please go here:



This site will be a community effort as I won't have time to moderate it.

Summertime !

It's about a week until CW's Summer Challenge starts. I intend to really step up to the plate on this one. As such, I will begin posting on a weekly basis in order to limit my time online and
"get out there." I would encourage all the single ladies (and gents) to participate in the challenge and make a goal for yourself. Please don't feel the pressure to meet "the love of your life" this summer. Perhaps your goal could simply be to go out more and meet people, make eye contact and practice simple flirting. Some of these things may seem elementary, but if you haven't "been out there" in a while, it really isn't.



The most important thing to do is to make the commitment to DO something. Start laying the groundwork for your future. During my weekly posts, I will be sharing my own "adventures." For sure, there will be some embarrassing moments...hey, I know me....lol.

CW is Throwing Down "The Challenge"

Single ladies, we need to take CW up on her offer to "just do it" this summer. The challenge is to stay off the net (as much as possible) June - August and position ourselves for the future. Find places in your area where you can meet QUALITY men. If Internet dating is your thing, then go that route as well..but always BE SMART and SAFE.



Pop over to Black Women Deserve Better and read more.